Men who seek to meet foreign women are looking to fulfill their dreams of love and romance through international dating. However most men fear the foreign ladies they get to know are only looking to trick them out of money or score a free ride to a richer country.
These fears are preyed upon by mainstream media which hypes and over sensationalizes stories of ill-fated foreign love affairs with the purpose of selling more newspapers and T.V. ad space.
How To Avoid International Dating Dangers
In reality the danger of fraud is not nearly the monster the news makes it out to be nor is it complicated to spot and avoid.
Leaping over the pitfalls and dodging the dangers of international dating is simple and only a question of common sense. Over ninety-five percent (95%) of the foreign women who are looking to date and marry men from other countries are honest ladies with sincere intentions; they are looking for love, friendship and affection just like the guys are.
Ongoing fraud investigations are showing that many of the cases initially thought to be master-minded by foreign women are run by men posing to be women. Many of the scams actually operate from inside the U.S. where con artists pretend to be women living in a foreign country. Beating these crooks at their own game only requires a touch of logic and good judgment.
There is one hard and fast rule which is guaranteed to protect your heart and your money one-hundred percent (100%) of the time you use it. The rule is, never send her any money. The reason for this may seem too simple to believe but it is the absolute reality.
A real woman from any country has too much pride to ask a man she only knows via online or postal letters and phone calls for financial support. No matter the reason, a lady who cares for you won’t ask you to help her with a telephone bill, internet payment, groceries or to cover the medical expenses of a sick or dying relative when she has not been with you.
She won’t ask you to pay for her visa or plane ticket to come see you until you have first traveled to go see her. If she is hinting at or requesting financial support before you meet her, it is highly advised you let her go.
If you communicate with a woman online who agrees to marry you before you meet her face-to-face, get away from her. Foreign women are passionate and affectionate but they are not Martians from outer space.
They don’t fall in love with men they have never kissed, they don’t ask for money from guys they just met and they won’t travel thousands of miles to visit with someone who has never visited them.
If you notice anything strange or out of place, mark it as a warning sign. When you have enough warning signs it is time to get away from her. And no matter what she says, do not send her money.
Do not let your sound judgment get glazed over with false promises of paradise. There is an infinite supply of fine foreign ladies all looking for the right man, all you have to do is make yourself available and don’t get caught up on one single girl you have never met.
This is why meeting several women from the same region is important, because travel is a huge part of discovering your foreign love. You need to set yourself up with options from which to create opportunities.
Where The Real Sharks Swim
The sharks who are looking to eat you alive are not the foreign ladies you may meet but rather the online dating sites and marriage agencies who promise to deliver you the girl of your dreams for a small fee of course.
Unfortunately most sites and agencies are more interested in suctioning money out of your pocket than pumping your life full of love.
Do not join agencies and paid sites which fail to offer at least a 30-day money back guarantee. Compare services and prices for introductions, some businesses demand insanely high prices just for the email and basic information of one woman.
If you pick 2 or 3 foreign women from a site’s profile options you find attractive but the agency does not have their information on hand or cannot offer proof they delivered your message to her, get your money back right away! They are in all probability paying models for pictures to hook you in and then switch to real women who are available but you have no interest in meeting.
If a company tries to force you or applies pressure for you to sign up for their “romance tour” leave the site and get your money back. To spot a good agency is not easy. Some positive signs you can check for are customer testimonials, affordable prices, validation of message delivery and well maintained websites.
Foreign Women At Your Feet
Now that you know the fundamentals to beating scams it is time to meet the foreign women you are looking for.
The first thing you want to do is make sure you know the country and city or cities you will be traveling to. It can become easy to meet real head turning girls from all over the World but it can get complicated trying to visit with the ones you like most.
Remember do not get caught up on one woman at first. So make sure you know for certain the fist city and country you will be traveling to. Get online, there are great free social sites like MySpace, Hii5, Facebook etc. where you can meet foreign women. Look for ladies who live near where you are going and who match your tastes.
Don’t waste your time on women who are gorgeous but you have nothing in common with. There are tons of women to meet and you want to focus on the ones that share deeper interests with you.
Over the weeks and months you will find women who become your friend and introduce you to other women who become more than your friend. You will meet women who turn you off completely and you will meet some women who make your heart stop.
When you have a list of ladies who are looking forward to your arrival… book a flight. About two weeks before your departure start making first dates. If you are going for ten days it is recommended you have a minimum of 3 first dates for the first 4 days. The rest of the time you can spend it with the one or two or three girls you hit it off with the most. Or you can continue filling your days and passing your nights with fresh new dates.
Either way, make sure you have a great time and slow down to smell what makes a foreign culture unique. Enjoy your time with all the women you meet, do not force a marriage, allow it to happen naturally (and only after spending some time with each other). Follow your dreams bravely and discover your own personal success with a foreign woman. May your love grow beyond borders.
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