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Everything That Glitters Is Not Gold

I recently met one of the most intriguing female creatures I ever had the mixed blessing and curse of coming across. Without doubt she has the vacuuming force of a black hole.

I was quickly lost in her vertigo of milk and honey.

Her preference are what guys in the know call 90/10, meaning she prefers women over men 90% of the time. Before meeting her I was told by several close friends of their failed attempts to conquer her interest. Being who I am, I have no interest in conquering ANY woman. But when I set eyes on her for the first time the moment sparked a blazing 5 alarm fire through every nerve in my being.

Because of odd circumstances we were first introduced in her apartment. She invited me to her room, the power was out, the day hot and muggy and we sat on her bed. We talked for nearly an hour in what felt like a fully clothed sauna session.

After the 60 minute steam bath we left her room and went to breakfast with a few of her girlfriends, my dad and his girlfriends. After breakfast the day got crazy weird & twisted…

We ended up in my dad’s apartment laying together in the guest room. We dolled in and out of a half sleepy state. Suddenly my brother Charlie, who was staying at the apartment, began to scream for help. My grandmother had a cerebral stroke and was in need of first aid.

As luck would have it, I have had the opportunity to train in various forms of first aid and was able to stabilizer her until the ambulance arrived. No worries though, today she is doing much better and is well on her way to recovery.

After 6.5 grueling hours at the hospital the nearly full on bottle-blond Dominican lesbian bombshell and I began a series of peculiar errands. We drove all over Santo Domingo (the capital city) picking people up and dropping things off, while blasting Reggaeton and Street Merengue out of the speakers.This was two days after my flight into Dom Rep and after a night of intense drinking with my cousins, sisters and brother.

My brain was still soaking in Tequila and beer. My eyes nearly sealed shut from exhaustion and my body tapped out from lack of sleep. Yet I scored a massive adrenaline fix from this vixen which kept me wired and going forward at a Hannibal’s pace. Something about her made me want to consume more of life.

When 2 a.m. rolled around we were at the door to my apartment in the Dominican Republic. I was beyond exhaustion at this point.

She never said she was spending the night, I had no intention for her to spend the night and was a bit awe struck by the fact she was still at my side, laughing and having a great time. As I made my bed and got ready to head out to where the Unicorns run free and candy-coated clouds sprinkle the sky, I noticed she was doing the same.

Feeling the intuitive need to play it cool and make no mention of anything, I simply turned on some ambient music and jumped into bed. Within 5 minutes this delightful creature was at my side. We cuddled, kissed and closed our eyes.

Around 3 a.m. her cell phone begins to ring non-stop. It was her roommate, who was locked out of their apartment and needed the blond Dominican bombshell to bring her the keys. I figured this signaled the end of our time together. But I was dead wrong…

All I can say is, we devoured one another.

She then coolly got up, took a shower, got dressed, called a cab and went home. I slowly got that one-night-stand dirty morning-after-feeling. And as luck would have it, my feelings where right. Despite the phone calls, songs and sweet text messages, she was resolved to not see me again.

Well that is not the whole story…

As fate would twist it, she confessed to me I was the perfect man. Far be it from me to argue with such fantastic logic (although I am not convinced I am the perfect man, I like the idea of a woman thinking so) I was impressed with her frank candor.

She had a second confession to make. This confession would be the explanation as to why she could not be with the perfect man (that’s me). You see… she has an ex-boyfriend…

“What’s the big deal you ask?” “We all have ex’s in our past you say.”

And you are right it is no big deal, we all have ex’s in our past…BUT… this ex-boyfriend happens to be my dad. WOW! How was that for an unexpected bomb from right field!?!

I personally had no problem with this, however she was stone cold set on not going any further. After several days of pursuing her I thought it was a done deal. I had been used, although I could not complain because I rather enjoyed it…but the story continues…

After a week or more of no communication, I get a call from the bombshell. She wants me to attend her upcoming graduation. I declined.

The day of her graduation I get a call from her asking me to attend and if I could loan her $60 so she could finish paying for her ceremony. I gave it to her as a gift but declined to go. She then began telling me how much she missed me and how much she wanted me to go. I gave in.

Well to make a long story short… I HAVE NO IDEA why she invited me to her graduation in the first place.

After the ceremony, her class went to a club to celebrate. The girl was all over the place, we hardly spoke, I spent the night dancing with her sister and drinking perfectly frozen beers with her mom all night. It was the oddest of relationships this bombshell and I.

She slowly and surely became toxic and bitter. Over the next few days her behavior reached the point of abusive. One night her roommate told me the bombshell was feeling sick and was hungry and that I should take her food. So I prepared a warm sandwich for her and headed over.

Well when I showed up, I got a brutal reception followed by a rude awakening a 6 a.m. with an immediate declaration to leave. Yes, this was my kind reward for bringing care, food and comfort to a sick and hungry vixen in the middle of the night.

I had to quickly recover from this loud and grotesque encounter of a foreign kind.

What I did was simple, I accepted the fact that the golden river I was floating on had turned to raging black waters. The point was not to navigate the black waters successfully, the point was to get the fuck out of the river and go find some new golden coasts. And this is what I did…

Don’t think when you are stuck in a bad situation you have to fix the situation or that it’s a reflection of yourself. Sometimes good goings go bad and the only solution is to get up and walk away to find some new good going ons.

See you in the next post where I’m going to reveal to you the secret of opening 50,000 luxury vehicles with wire hangers…plus… some other juicy details of this strange Odyssey I have been swept away on.

All the Best,
~Carlos

As you may or may not know the Dominican Republic was many centuries ago a preferred coastal hide-out for pirates and ocean traveling buccaneers. Today, their legends, legacy and lineage remain coursing through the veins of the Dominican people and their culture. Without any plans of staying here for more than 2 weeks, I have been sucked in by the honey allure of the women, the racing pace of the night life and the raw-sugar sweet sensation of the Caribbean Ocean.

I now understand how travelers of old would begin a trek with plans to return home shortly to only find themselves traveling for years before ever setting foot in the backyard again. A month ago Love Beyond Borders and myself planned to come to the Dominican Republic to shoot some footage for Love Beyond Borders TV conduct interviews with the Master Harem Builder and gather material for our upcoming book. Never in a million years did it cross my mind I would be here 2 weeks longer than planned and staying longer even.

The Dominican women are nothing short of intoxicating. Their sexual prowess compares with that of a Cheetah or female Jaguar. They have a cunning way of drawing men to them and seemingly fulfilling every sexual fantasy you can have. Although much like the Sirens of Greek lore, you can easily find your life being crashed against the mighty rocks of Gibraltar if you are snared by one of the wrong vixens. The Dominican woman is a rare caliber female and I do not recommend any man who is just starting out his adventure with foreign women and foreign romance to come here looking for love. It takes experience and skill to find love here. However, if you are looking to have your mind blown, your appetites stuffed full and your carnal desires realized… the Dominican Republic and its women could be exactly what you seek.

Even an experienced and avid aficionado of foreign women (such as myself) has to move wisely here. In an upcoming article “Golden Rivers Turn To Black Waters” I reveal how a bodacious bi-sexual sexpot got the better of me and what I did to turn the tables and recover from a near fatal encounter of the strangest kind.

As this twisted and adrenaline washed odyssey continues I will update you on what’s going on with some of the best stories of my life.

The other day we cracked open a $50,ooo Hummer with a 2 cent coat hanger, you’ll want to make sure you read all about it. Over the next few days I hope to catch my breath and post all my notes. But first I have to clear my mind, to be honest I am lingering in a haze of whiskey, weed, sexual bliss and merriment. I wish you were here… I really do… stay tuned. Be Well, Be Happy.
All the Best,

~Carlos

Between the roaring media voices which would have us choose a slow torturous death over foreign dating… the self-imposed fear of friends and family… and… our own unsettled doubts, most of us get too frightened to cash in on the golden opportunity of international dating.

This guide will help put you in top gear when it comes to finding the foreign woman of your dreams.

Step One

Before you begin to search for women you must first identify the foreign country whose culture and life you are most drawn to. If there are things about a country, which inspire you, you will find its women will fill you with a new passion for life!

Take time to study different countries. Selecting one will help you focus your time and energy on exactly the women you want without wasting time making friends all over the world that you may not meet. By sticking with one country you know you can go there and meet all the friends you are making.

Step Two

There are plenty of paid dating sites on the Internet. But very few really care about you as a person. They mostly care about separating you from your money.

Save your money for your trip. Set up free online profiles at various social sites such as Facebook, MySpace and Hi-5 among many others including Twitter.

Make sure you load a few pictures of yourself, and you take time to give your profile detail. Don’t be vague, talk about yourself with excitement and honesty.

Be proud of who you are and what you are doing in your life. And when it comes to listing your favorite movies, book’s, hobbies etc. never feel pressured to make a huge list and try to keep your lists to less than ten as well.

Step Three

Once your profile is set up its time to start making friends. Make sure you are making lots of friends and don’t get hung up on one particular girl.

By making lots of friends you are helping to protect yourself against scams, being let down and increasing your chances of finding the sweetheart of your dreams.

Find the groups, comment areas, forums and other social spots you are interested in and look for women from your favorite country to make friends with. You can also join groups with specific interests about a country and make friends this way too.

Step Four

This is the one step, which will protect you from all dating scams. Simply never send any money. Keep your money where it belongs, in your wallet! If you do this simple thing and you use common sense you won’t be taken for a fool.

Step Five

This is the best step of all. Once you have your profile up and after you are making friends with the ladies, start planning your trip to meet them. Begin by learning a little of the local language.

Start calling hotels and get an exact idea of what the rates are, what your airfare could costs and how much you need to go out and have yourself a killer time once you arrive.

Set your budget, save up and get on a plane. You will have endless invitations from your girlfriends for airport pickup, home cooked meals and the sexiest most friendliest tour guides readily available.

–Carlos Duran is a professional writer who lives, researches and reports on the international dating lifestyle. He published a free video course on International Dating anyone can use.

Well that’s a picture of me… As  you can see I’m definitely NOT in New Jersey and I traded in my glasses for contacts…BUT… that’s not why you’re here. You’re here to get your hands on the secret of success with international dating and meeting foreign women. Well, I’m glad because I’m here to give it to you.

You are probably asking yourself “who the heck is Carlos Duran and why should I listen to him?”

I’m a regular guy just like you who grew up in immigrant communities and because I was an overweight adolescent I lived a nightmare when it came to meeting girls. Until I figured out that the girls who came from other countries did not mind my awkward body or goofy style.

Today I’m married to an incredible Costa Rican woman. She fills my heart with fire, my belly with passion and brings to life my wildest fantasies. Here’s a picture of her…

What I Do…

I’m the Creative Director and Co-Founder of Love Beyond Borders. A company my wife and I started based on our own life experiences with foreign dating. Our goal is to help you meet women from other countries for love, sex, romance and marriage.

We help you figure out what it is you want from a foreign relationship and then put you in the groove to find foreign women who are looking for the exact same thing you are.

Using years of behind-the-scenes-work with dating agencies, mail order bride services and actual online dating we develop tools and resources that help you leap over the pitfalls and dangers of online dating scams, gold-diggers and free visa seekers. You get the answers you want on how to meet women online, how to date them face to face, what to do about children (yours and/or hers), how to handle cultural differences, travel, marriage, moving, legal issues and much, much more!

Our mission is to leave NO OBSTACLE STANDING between you and the love life you most desire. Among our more popular tools is our free video course on international dating, our blog, our Internet TV Show and our Love Beyond Borders Complete Guided System.

Where I’ve Been…

Some guys love muscle cars, other guys consume electronics, cigars or wine. I love women, specifically foreign women. Since my early teen years when I first became aware of the prowess, sensuality and affection of foreign girls I became obsessed with discovering what makes these women so unique,  so special and so exotic.

I have traveled to Europe, the Caribbean and the Americas. I have dated women from Brazil, Japan, various European countries and nearly every nation where Spanish is spoken. I have meet women who live deep in the jungle, others who are professional models and many more from all walks and professions in life.

Here’s a picture of me and a dear girlfriend. She is intelligent, young and very much in touch with her femininity and goals.

My Abysmal Failure & Roaring Success

Over a period of 16 years and counting I have nearly drowned in the ugly underbelly of mongering and the dark-side of dating women in foreign countries. I have destroyed more wonderful relationships than I can count, I have been through divorce, nasty breakups and marriage… all exclusively with foreign women.

What happened you ask?

Why if these foreign wonders are so wonderful have I been through so much drama and turmoil?

The answer has more to do with me and my appetites than it has to do with the women.

You see, having been brought up in a developed nation learning the fine tuned details of relations and women in general took me some serious experimenting. I look at relationships like Thomas Edison looks at light bulbs… It Is Not A Matter Of Failure, It Is A Matter Of Learning How Things Are Not Done.

“A gem cannot be polished without friction,
nor a man perfected without trials.” ~Chinese Proverb

I have crashed priceless planes in test flights so other men would not have to. I have learned you can have anything you want from a relationship so long as you are honest with yourself and with the women you  meet. I have learned that the highest degree of success for a mind-blowing love life is in pursuing love, romance and friendships with foreign women.

Today I have delicious girlfriends all over the world. Do I sleep with all of them? Have I slept with most of them? No, I have not. Am I welcome in their home anytime? Can I visit with them, do they visit me? Do they introduce me to their other knock-out hot girlfriends?

You Bet Your Ass They Do!

If you measure your success with women by how many women you can seduce and your approach is one of sexual conquest, you are missing out on the most significant and mouthwatering opportunities which exist with great women.

You know, back in high-school lots of guys would make fun of me for dating the “wet-backs” and “spear-chuckers” but these were the hottest girls in school, who had ZERO attitude and loved to be around me. I didn’t sleep with most of them but I lived a dream most guys secretly desired all through high-school. And now I know those same guys who laughed at my face, when they went home alone at night to spank their monkey, I was over Linda’s house having dinner with her parents and making out in her living room.

Here’s a picture of me and one of our newest friends…

In The Next Update I Reveal… Who is The Master Harem Builder… What’s His Influence On My Life… What Make’s Me A So-Called International Dating Expert…AND… I’ll Put To Rest Once & For All Why You Should Listen To This Chubby Misfit From New Jersey If You Are Serious About Succeeding At International Dating And Meeting Foreign Women.

Now That’s A Mouth Full!

I politely let him know I would make myself available at his convenience… NEVER did I imagine to his convenience would mean… a 2:30 am hot seat interview. You see, Josh is a sharp lawyer who is used to catching snake oil salesmen off guard and a twilight interview live on camera is the perfect way to put anybody off guard.

Once I agreed, Josh got to work right away… he gave me no mercy and I asked for none… he took me direct to the mat and I answered straight and from the heart… what ensued in this interview is something you need to watch not read about. Watch the whole thing, unedited, unabridged and with NO HOLDS BARRED…

Watch the chilling 2:30AM interview right now!

– Carlos Duran is a professional writer who lives, researches and reports on the international dating lifestyle. He has even created a free video course on International Dating anyone can use. Carlos developed a passion for foreign women early in life and is inspired to help others find love beyond their borders.

You can take a look at the free video course revealing the secret of success with foreign women by visiting http://www.ForeignWomenSecrets.com

As Seen On Ezine.com

Learning from their out-of-work K.G.B brethren, they have turned their evil ways to match-making crimes. Now the mafia in Japan has begun to offer city men the promise of marrying a decent “old-fashioned” girl from the country side.

The whole scheme starts when a man who is looking for marriage calls a service he sees advertising to be a high-end professional marriage agency. He is then put in touch with one of the agency’s “best-brokers” and offered the privilege of joining the agency. This privilege plays to the tune of more than $800 dollars per month.

The man is set up on a dates with girls, until he selects one he likes, she is on the con too. The mobsters call these women Sakura “bait”. Depending on how much the scammers think they can squeeze out of one particular victim, they will string the chap along. Some victims have reported losses in excess of $650,000 dollars.

It is the job of the “professional broker” to keep the client fixated. He does this by slowly building the psychological pressure, teasing the victim with reports of the girl’s growing love and thoughts of marriage. Each month which goes by, the man is paying a monthly membership with the expectation of marrying the Sakura not knowing his wallet is being pumped dry. Sometimes the agency requires the man pay a “deposit” on top of the monthly fees.

It does not matter if it is Asian online dating, Russian online dating, Latin online dating, or any other form of online dating for the matter… make sure you are not sending money or getting involved in financial transactions with any person you are dating online!

If you are serious about international online dating and you have not signed up for the Love Beyond Borders Free International Dating Video Course you are missing out on one of the best opportunities of your life. Go sign up now. And may you discover true love beyond your own borders.

In a new world, old traditions can still exist.

Recently an Orthodox Muslim friend called upon me for help. He is a very intelligent, attractive young Muslim who works hard and has little time left to pursue his romantic life. He is also living in the U.K.

Adding to his challenges are the traditional marriage customs he keeps, which require the blessing of both families for marriage.

You see, if you are anything like me, you would have no idea (much like I had no idea) that Orthodox Muslim marriages are still for the most part pre-arranged or quasi-pre-arranged. The latter meaning the couple meets on their own and quickly refer to their parents for approval.

There is little courtship in Muslim relationships and even less dating. Dating is more of a Western concept.

These challenges ment my dear friend would have to use the online world to meet Orthodox Muslim women in a way which is permited by his religion and also offers him the best possibility for meeting available women who are looking for marriage.

He confessed to me that he was not alone. Apparently there are thousands of young Muslims who are interesting in meeting a potential mate, they are online, but a lack of understanding, social dynamics and simple confussion act as barriers to finding each other.

After an hour mixed between brainstorming ideas and he giving me a crash course on the do’s and dont’s of Muslim relationships we reached some strange but workable solutions.

At the end of the day, the basics prevailed. No matter who you are, if you are online and you belong to various social networks, your chances of finding love are greater than those who are only looking within their local cirlce.

The big conclusion was really simple. In fact it is one anyone can use… Begin by joining groups which interest  you. If you are into bird watching join bird watching groups. In his case, we agreed he would begin to join groups centered around Muslim Orthodox clubs and topics.

The next step we agreed on, is for him (or you) to get active in these groups. Make posts, offer unique and interesting content to the groups and even organize events. Even if you only organize virtual events that’s perfectly fine. And if you can’t organize events, make sure you attend them.

Once you have joined the groups and have become active in them you should start recieving friend requests from members in the group. Then you should also start sending out invitations to connect with members in the group who you find interesting.

The last bit of advise I gave him, which you can maybe use to is… When you start making friends don’t come right out and try to get romantic or score a date. Make lots of friends, get to know the people you are meeting and give them a chance to get to know you as well. After a few weeks of learning more about each other and developing a friendship you can start exploring taking the relationship to the next level.

I hope you found this story interesting, educational and useful. Please feel free to share your comments, thoughts and ideas below.

I look forward to your comments on each and how if at all it helped you in your own life this week…

In sex, pain is a four-letter word
By Melissa Ferrara, FNP

Intercourse should not hurt. I am surprised at how many patients I see who have been suffering for years with painful intercourse of some kind. There are many reasons why someone might be suffering from painful intercourse. For example, lack of lubrication, vaginal muscle tension, endometriosis, vaginal infections, and structural abnormalities are all possible reasons for painful intercourse. Whether you experience pain with penetration, throughout the vagina or… Keep reading about solutions to pain during sex

Online Dating Statistics In The U.S.

Ever heard of online dating? If you’re the introverted type of person, shy, scared of rejections and unable to start a conversation, then maybe its high time for you to check out online dating. This might be just the right place for you. The Internet is the fastest way to online dating.

There are a lot of local as well as international online dating services that you can choose from, since the Internet typically has no boundaries, you can communicate with a lot of people from…Discover more about online dating in U.S.

Men’s Travel—Silver: Attack of the Thai Water Nymphs
by Phil Goldman

[Dateline: Bangkok] Thousands of Thai Nationals have taken to the streets, armed with high-powered squirt rifles, hoses and buckets – completely soaking everything in their way. Songkran, the three-day, nationwide Thai Water Festival has begun. All business and traffic has come to a standstill. You are advised to please remain indoors or inside your cars – unless you are prepared to get seriously… Find out what happens in Thailand that you can use to your travel advantage to meet and date Thai women